God loves the sinner, not the sin. We have so many opportunities to show the love of God but we waste them. We get distracted by others past choices or current circumstances that we forget, we too were once in those shoes. Lost & broken. God didn’t ask us to decide who was worth His love. It’s not something to earn! It is freely given. If we take that burden off & just love everyone as God intended, then He can do His job. All we need to do is be an example & a walking testimony.
If you control it, God is not in it. What peace we find when we surrender all to God! Cast all your cares upon him (1 Peter 5:7) and trust that he will work it all out (Proverbs 3:5), better than you could’ve ever hoped or dreamed (Eph. 3:20)!